FORGIVENESS: Releasing The PAIN
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A Touch of WISDOM
Enjoying the opportunity to share a WORD of encouragement, incitement, acknowledgment or sentiments, to lighten the LOAD of living...
Saturday, March 05, 2011
Friday, October 06, 2006
Actually......, what is GHETTO ???
GHETTO......, is TALKING loud on "YOUR" speaker cell phone.
GHETTO......, is CURSING and disrespecting "YOURSELF" in public.
GHETTO......, is LEAVING "YOUR" children in the car, while you're getting your hair done.
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Wednesday, March 08, 2006
Relationship FREEDOM
"YOUR" question: Can a woman, who have been ABUSE, in "HER" past...., CHOOSE to stay in a relationship, because "SHE" feels that there is VALUE in it, to HOLD onto ???
Just for a simple answer. "YES", because somewhere in THAT relationship "YOU" are getting some of your needs met.
First, thing "WE" all must come to admit..., understand..., and decide is..., with THIS life GOD gives "US" the freedom of CHOICE.
The freedom of CHOICE is soooo basic !!!
Let's define "HOPE" - 1 : to cherish a desire with anticipation <hopes for a promotion>
2 archaic : TRUST
transitive senses
1 : to desire with expectation of obtainment
2 : to expect with confidence : TRUST
2 archaic : TRUST
transitive senses
1 : to desire with expectation of obtainment
2 : to expect with confidence : TRUST
Now, that "WE" know..., with HOPE comes ANTICIPATION, for our relationships to develop into something REAL, UNBREAKABLE and SOLID.
1. We MUST admit, to the REALITY of our relationship.
*Is this relationship balanced ???
- Are 'my' needs, wants and desires being met ?
- Am "I" sincerely trying to meet the needs, wants and desires of my mate ?
- Are "WE" equally committed to working on having a "Healthy Relationship" ?
*Is there genuine TRUST in our relationship ???
- I'm "I" ACTIVELY looking for "HIS" indiscretions ?
- Is "HE" finding reasons to question 'my' activities ?
- Are "WE" equally committed to working on having a "Healthy Relationship" ?
*Is there freedom to share and COMMUINCATE openly in our relationship ???
- Do "I" feel safe to COMMUINCATE openly my fears, my insecurities and my mistakes, without having to FEEL judged ?
- Does "HE" trust "YOU" to share "HIS" fears, insecurities and mistakes, without having to be MADE to feel less THAN the Man, "HE" presented 'himself to be..., initially ?
- Are "WE" equally committed to working on having a "Healthy Relationship" ?
2. We MUST understand, any problems found in our relationships..., doesn't just lay in the courtyard of our mate.
So if "WE" choose to participate in the relationship, whatever causalities that's endeared, shoulder the responsibility of both parties.
Simply put: "YOU" are NOT a victim, once "YOU" choose to participate.
Major QUESTION: Are "WE" equally committed to working on having a "Healthy Relationship" ?
3. We MUST decide, is THIS relationship..., really working for the 'emotional, mental, physical, financial, and spiritual' aspect of a "Healthy Relationship".
IMPORTANT QUESTION to ask: - Are "WE" equally committed to working on having a "Healthy Relationship" ?
A Healthy Relationship is a COMMITMENT to work TOGETHER through the FEARS, INSECURITIES and any MISTAKES or indiscretions found in the relationship, to promote HEALING.
If it's "HER" choice to do so, is it something wrong with "HER" in making that choice ???
No, it's NOT..., if SHE" knows that she has a very COMMITED Man at HER side, who is equally COMMITED to working on a "Healthy Relationship" !!!
But, if "SHE's" moving on HOPE all by herself in the relationship......, then YES, it's something REALLY wrong with "HER" !!!
Shirley aka LoveUnity
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Thursday, March 02, 2006
One Flaw In Women
One Flaw In Women
Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness, love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about
a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they
think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss
can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what
makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideas.
They give moral support to their
family and friends.
Women have vital things to say
and everything to give.
HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,
IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.
Please pass this along to all your women friends and relatives to remind them just
how amazing they are.
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A.S.A.P. - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER.
Ever wonder about the abbreviation A.S.A.P.?
Generally we think of it in terms of even more hurry and stress in our lives.
Maybe if we think of thisabbreviation in a different manner,
we will begin to find a new way to dealwith those rough days along the way.
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There's work to do, deadlines to meet;
You've got no time to spare,
But as you hurry and scurry-
ASAP - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER
In the midst of family chaos,
"Quality time" is rare.
Do your best; let God do the rest-
ASAP - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER
It may seem like your worries
Are more than you can bear.
Slow down and take a breather-
ASAP - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER
God knows how stressful life is;
He wants to ease our cares,
And He'll respond to all your needs
A.S.A.P. - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER.
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Wednesday, November 23, 2005
Connect to LoveUnity on Yahoo! 360
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Monday, September 05, 2005
T.D. Jakes did not defend is own.
This message is from LoveUnity in forum BV Welcome Forum.
The subject is: T.D. Jakes did not defend is own..
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LoveUnity says to you:
Please don't be so QUICK to be STUPID !!!
Forum: BV Welcome Forum
Subject : T.D. Jakes did not defend is own.
From : LoveUnity
To : ardrenah
Posted : 9/5/2005 11:37 PM
Sometimes I believe we are the most gullible people on the planet.
"YOU" know......, it REALLY doesn't matter what ((((((Bishop T. D. Jakes)))))) does !!!
It's ALWAYS going to be the "minute few"..., who will forever STAND behind "HIS/HER" misinformation and blast, vomit and splasher accusations......, 'without, before or just PURELY drawing on ASSUMPTIONS, before INTELLIGENTLY questioning "YOUR" emotional FEARS, ANGRY of HATRED !!!
Do "YOU" really THINK the "powers that be" give a rat aiiss or would for that matter, be willing to go to the TABLE and discuss with (Mr. Kanye West), the issues THAT set before "US" ??? Yes, I really do AGREE with 'his' statement....
Bishop T. D. Jakes, voiced "HIS" outrage at THIS tragedy, when "HE" questioned......, 'How Amerian have the mean to address the NEEDS of our foriegn countries..., yet FAILED to be of HELP to our OWN !!!
Plus "WE" are volunteering relentlessly in EVERY area of 'our' lives to fill in th GAP, inwhich "YOUR" 'Government' failed our FAMILIES and FRIENDS.
Will the President invite Bishop T. D. Jakes to the TABLE to discuss this travesty ???
Sometimes..., one has to KEEP an intelligent demeanor to UNCOVER the hidden agendas, so intelligently HIDDEN in 'our' society today !!!
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Tuesday, August 30, 2005
HIV / AID
This message is from LoveUnity in forum Mahogany Love.
The subject is: HIV / AID.
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LoveUnity says to you:
Who should bear the burden of PROTECTING...
Forum: Mahogany Love
Subject : TELL ME, TELL ME WHO...
From : LoveUnity
To : blk15221
Posted : 8/26/2005 12:32 AM
c) EACH PARTNER BEARS EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY
In my opinion, BOTH parties bear the RESPONSIBILITY and the ACCOUNTABILITY, because EACH one must KNOW by now the prevalence of the spread of HIV/AID and each understand the severity of this disease. We KNOW, that MANY aren't HONEST or VIGILANT concerning who THEY choose to share their 'blody fliuds' with..., or else the number of infections would be declining. So, EITHER 'WE" don't care or believe the numbers or "WE'RE" still living with the 'mind-set' that "It can't or won't happen to ME" !!!
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